is an online discussion about men, masculinities and friendship.  Let me know what it’s like for you to be a guy in today’s world. What’s working in your life? What are the stresses you face as a guy?  If you are a woman, you are warmly invited to respond as well.

The rules for men are changing today, and this can be confusing. Yesterday’s code for manliness was different. Open and vulnerable versus strong and in control? What’s the right direction? What are the messages from women, our partners and our children about what they expect from us? How about other guys? What can we count on in our male friendships?

Weigh in on these issues, here and now.